Tuesday, February 28, 2006

Can't Stand Senseless Remarks

There have been so much talks about the NYP girl recently and it seems to have created a big hoo-ha, even in the "blogosphere". I've seen the video and as the curiostity got the better of me, I did a search on the internet to see what others have been commenting about. I was shocked how some people can talk bad about people.

What disgusted me the most was this comment by some crazy guy. He said he has seen the girl a few times before (the video got circulated) somewhere (I suppose in sch) and had found her cute. Now that he has seen the video, the next time he sees her, he wants to ask how much she charges for a nite. I was like, "WTF!!!!" Jus because you know she is having sex with her bf, you assume u can approach her as if she is prostitute????? Wah lau! Use your brain lah! This is so ridiculous!

So what happens if this idiotic guy has a good friend who happens to be a female whereby he knows is having sex with her bf? Would he ask his female friend the same thing? Wau lau.... think can. Such a senseless comment and it's nt even funny.

Actually I kinda pity the girl lah.... Being exposed and all.... 吃亏了still must let people say this say that. I dun see any wrong on her part ah.... The only wrong thing she did was probably keeping the video in her hp. Aiya.... film already, ownself watch le delete mah. Still keep.... Doesn't she know that she might jus lose it anytime or even stolen? And see? This is the consequence. I guess it's her own stupidity that brought her down....

But hor... why does the spotlight have to be on the girl? Her bf's face oso on video mah. So how come no one interested in who he is? Why must focus all attention on the girl? So unfair! I guess this is Singaporean's conservative culture lah.

Oh well... watever tat has been done has been done... Sooner or later, this will become just another piece of old news. People will start to forget about it and talk about something else.

Still... give the girl a break!

Monday, February 27, 2006

A Very Spicy Lunch

Jus came back from lunch with Janice at Tiong Bahru Plaza. We had ramen at 别府。 It's the one where u can choose the spiciness of the soup - ranges from 1 chilli being the mildest to 8 chilli being the most most spicy.

I heard that Sinta had the one with 8 chilli last week when they went for lunch and even had an extra bowl of soup, so I gladly assume that it can't be realli tat spicy.... But i din hv the courage to order 8 chilli de, so i opt for half tat amt instead - 4 chilli. Wah Lau!!!!! Then I realise what a freak Sinta is. Cause hor, 4 chilli is already damn hot lor. Now my lips feels like 2 sausages on fire! The spiciness is so overwhelming until my head was spinning as I was eating it ah! First time in my life I ever ate something so hot. Phew! Sinta, 你真行!!! 8 chilli... imagine how very the spicy it is.....

I tried Janice's soup with 2 chilli and it is in fact rather hot le.... But overall, the ramen is nice lah.... I must go have it again. This time like Janice, I'm gonna jus take with 2 chilli. Haha! Scareded le..... lolx

As I am writing this entry. I wonder if Ms Janice has manage to got back to office. Cause hor, being the blur blur sotong, she actually took the wrong side of the train to go back office. Instead of heading back to Tanjong Pagar, she ended up at Redhill. Still can sms me and tell me it's nt her first time and probably might nt be the last. *faintz*

Please, I make an appeal to the public. Anyone who sees Ms Janice wandering at the MRT station, please step forward and ask her where she going and help guide her on the right train before she ends up somewhere else again. OMG... Janice, when will u ever learn? Lolx!

Friday, February 24, 2006

Lunch at Sketches

Went for lunch with my dear Janice and Sinta just now.... Aiyo... Finally after so many arrangements. Somehow, whenever we try to arrange lunch together, I always cannot make it de. However, today's lunch still lack of one person and tat is... "Big Foot Joei"! Haha!

Haven seen her for a long long time le... Yet she din join us for lunch today. So bad.... :(

Now I'm so super full with the delicious pasta all piled up in my stomach. Hmm..... In front of the comp now I feel like dozing off to sleep. zzzzzzzz....

Looking forward to next Sunday where me and Janice will be going over to Sinta's place for a relaxing Sunday. We've made plans to swim, laze around, drink wine and teach Janice to play mahjong (hehe! hopefully can win a bit of shopping money from her).

Sinta reminded tat we must lock all precious belongings in her room before we allow Janice to drink, in case she walks away with any one of our bags again. Haha! This time maybe I shld pretend to be drink and walk out of Sinta's hse with a carton of her branded bags! hahahaha!

Eh... Janice... maybe we can collaborate? hahahhahaha! So exciting!

是不是爱情一旦久了,就会慢慢的消失?满满的淡化, 成了只有感情的存在?那当年的甜蜜和情感都去了哪里呢?

我一直以来很执著的相信, 爱情是会有天长地久的,是能够维持,能够像酒一样,过越久,就会越浓。但是, 在这世上活得越久,随着年龄的增加,渐渐的体会到了人生的残酷。很多事不是我想象中的那么完美无缺。。。一段感情不会有天长地久,夫妻不会白头到老,这些都显示了人生的无奈。

我在爱情方面,一直寻找完美, 要求完美,其实是很过分也是很勉强的要求。但,如果不这么做,不就等于没有努力的尝试过吗?这样的话,将来不是会后悔吗?

其实啊,爱情吗,不一定要爱得你死我活,轰轰烈烈的。只要两个人,心里有数,知道彼此真的爱过对方,那也应该就够了。与其一直担心未来会社怎样的,不如把握现在所拥有的一切, 真心地对待彼此。接下来的事,就顺其自然吧。。。

俗语说,“不在乎天长地久,只在乎 。。。。”

Sunday, February 19, 2006

A Blissful Weekend

Was supposed to go for a drink on Fri. But end up at the very very last min, one of them not going, so well... plans cancelled.

For a long long time since dunno when, I din play mahjong on a Fri. Jas came to pick me up from office at bout 9plus then we went for dinner, hang around for a while before he went fishing. I din wanna tag along with him so I went back home to watch VCDs. It's so nice to spend an evening with Jas taking our own sweet time to have dinner, chat and basically jus enjoy each other's comapny without having to rush off to anywhere else after that. It's been a long long time.....

Jas and I went shopping on Sat to get what I've been wanting.... The Gucci card holder that I wanted.... the one tat I saw when I went shopping with Kel the other day. It comes with a nice trinklet... so cute. =)

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To make up for Valentine's Day, in a way, Jas bought it for me. So I declare this as my Valentine's Day present for 2006. Lolx!
Sometimes he is really so super sweet.....

Was supposed to meet Sinta and Hoon for dinner de before going over to their place for a social mahjong session. However, they forgot that they have an dinner appointment. So me and Jas settled our own dinner instead. We ate at Pepper Lunch. It's nice leh... but not cheap. "Pay so much still gotta cook ur own food" was what my dad complained about the previous time we ate there. Still, I enjoyed it....

Haven't played mahjong with Sinta and Hoon for quite long le, but geez... Sinta's luck is still so good. Wah! Almost every time she gets lots and lots of "flowers" de... and she gets to win. Me leh? Down on luck, get "flowers" but never game de. Some more got one time, realise short of cards. haha! Then Hoon even worse, he realise he short of 2 cards.... Lolx! So end up Sinta wins again. Hey Hoon.... Next time we ought to remind each other more huh.....

So there.... it was my weekend! A weekend well spent.... A very enjoyable one indeed....

Thursday, February 16, 2006

这几天,心情总是闷闷的。。。 感觉上很像什么都做不好。就像站在十字路口,不知道要往左还是往右。

因为心情差,结果一直和他吵架。 总是为了一些有没有的零碎小事而争吵。 真讨厌!

希望接下来,日子会好一点。难道狗年真对出生于狗年的人不好吗? 能捱过一年吗?

Wednesday, February 15, 2006

It was Valentine's Day.....

Although I dun expect any elaborate celebration but the least he could do was spend more time with me.....

But? He went to play mahjong.... How nice is that? =(

Tuesday, February 14, 2006

Some people can be so brainless

I was at one of those chinese dinner for temple de... those outdoor kind de... Saw a very tiny bird. Very cute..... It looks like those kinda fake bird tat are put as decoration on Ying Liu tree during CNY, The size is also exactly the same as those. It was hopping around on the crowded floor...

My dad was afraid tat someone would step on it, so he carried it and put in near a grass patch. The bird stayed there throughout almost the whole dinner. My dad intended to bring it home after the dinner and rear it, just in case it gets pounced on by cats in the open. Halfway through the dinner, the bird flew and landed on our table. It seems to know that my dad had the kind intention and hopped right in front of my dad. It was so so very cute..... 超可爱.

But all of a sudden, it flew to the ground again and by tat time, a crowd had gathered around it. This waitress...then walked over and picked the bird up and walk away with it. After a while, my mum went up to her and ask her where is the bird. She say the "tang kee"m say cannot keep. Must 放生, so she brought the bird to a junction and let it fly.

Wah lau!!!! The bird super tiny and cannot fly high de. Everyone saw the bird cannot fly high, she bring to a traffic junction and 放生. Stupid or what?! Some more still very 得以 telling her friend about it like she so 伟大.

My mum was worried. So she walk to the junction to find the bird hoping it's still alive.... but sad to say, it was dead already. Its body was lying near the divided flat....

I was rather traumatized cause one min it was still alive, flying around and hopping in front of me and the next, it's dead. We almost had the chance to bring it home so that we can keep it away from the dangers of the open such as cats and cars. Yet that stupid woman stupidly brought it to a traffic junction and there it died. 笨死了!!!!!

My mum was quite pissed, so she walk up to that dumb woman and told her the bird is dead. She pretended not to hear and carrying on bragging to her friends.

I think she super brainless.... cause hor, we were in the middle of a field (the dinner was under a tentage on a field) and yet instead of 放生 at the field, she had to walk to the traffic junction. Kowz! Isn't she plain dumb, stupid, brainless? And wat's worse is tat she seems indifferent to the fact tat the bird died.

Damn it! So angry with her!!!!!! After all, a bird is a living thing...... Sadz..... Wat a brainless bitch!

Friday, February 10, 2006

时间的对错

在对的时间,遇到对的人,是一生幸福
在对的时间,遇到错的人, 是一场心痛
在错的时间,遇到错的人,是一段荒谬
在错的时间,遇到对的人,是一生遗憾
Saw this is Sam Kor's blog... 对最后一句特别有感觉。在错的时间遇到对的人, 真的是会有遗憾的。。。
不过可能有了遗憾,才算是体会了人生吧。经过了遗憾人总会变得更会珍惜。但为何我还是不会呢?一次的教训还不够吗?

Things I really dun Understand

Jus came back from lunch with Janice. Good to see a good friend again after so long.... It's amazing how well friendship can develop from a simple "hi" at the beginning. =) And it's only thru the passage of time that one knows who are the 靠得住 friends. Janice... u shld know wat i mean or rather... who I mean hor... Aiyo... So bad.

Anyway.... I was asking Janice to relate her part of the story about
The Joker, The Silly Sinta and The Gucci Bag. There's a lot of things I cannot and will never understand why it's like tat.

Firstly, how can somone jus walk away with 2 bags and not realising it.
Then, the same person, can go home with it, cause she's too lazy to walk back.
Thirdly, this same person can last thru the whole night with a hp ringing korean tune which is nt from her hp and slept thru it (this one still nt so bad... cause drunk le, then half awake half asleep so dreaming tat she is starring in a korean show. Haha!)

Nonetheless probably, this is how one is really is when drunk..... So this serves as a warning for all who goes clubbing and drinks. Either dun drink to prevent this from happening to urself, or stay away from people who's drunk to prevent ending up homeless for the night.

Thursday, February 09, 2006

After a long long relationship

Was browsing thru friendster.... Saw Min has her profile stating she's single. I presume she and L has broken up. Haiz... After so long.... they din make it. I guess they have been together for about 5 or 6yrs ba.... maybe even 7yrs. 真的是很可惜。。。 在一起这么久了, 结果还是这样。

I'm nt implying tat having been together long le cannot break up, jus tat I feel it's a pity. Having spent like 6, 7 yrs with each other only to realise both are not suitable? Or was it an initiated breakup on the impulse by one party.... jus like what i did so many years ago? I dunno... And I guess I will never know. Cause ever since, me and him broke up, I've lost contact with this group of friends. Afterall, they were his friends...

Haiz... Wat are the basis of a relationship. Does 2 person really have to take such a long time before they realise they can't be together? The more possible answer might be tat having been together for a long time le, either side got tired of the relationship le. Isn't tat sad?

不知道要怎样形容我现在的想法。只是觉得有一种很难过的感受。我也不知道为何。。。。也许是又想起了一些藏了很久的回忆。

I wish I can tell Min and L to reconsider their decision. Take into accounts the feeling you once had for each other. Maybe the decision might be different......

Wednesday, February 08, 2006

Giving Presents

Jas is on leave today... He is going to settle his car loan thingy. So... I ask him send me to work. He huh... seldom will be so willing to wake up so early in the morning and fetch me to work de. For today... he has a big motivation waking him. Lolx!

Too bad I got lots to complete at work today. If nt I can take leave to accompany him. Afterall, he's nt on leave very often. Oh well.... Jus too bad. Haiz....

Saw a Gucci card holder while shopping with Kel the other day. Think it's their new collection. I like I like.... but hor... but hor.... no money buy for this month..... =( Haiz... Gotta wait lor... Next month ba...

Vday coming le... After having went thru so many Vdays, I'm starting to see it as a commercial event. Everything is so expensive on tat day. Set dinners... Flowers... everything..... Think all the commercial people are leveraging on Vday to make as much profit as possible. Dunno since how long ago, I stopped celebrating on the actual day. Either that or no elaborate celebration. The cliche saying goes, "Everyday is Vday when 2 person are in love." Haha!

Haven got Jas any decent gift for Vday for the past 2yrs (since I stop working full time and went back to study), so when I went past Lee Hwa yesterday, 心血来潮,went to choose a gift for him. I settled on a Starke bracelet. I think he ever mention before tat he likes the Starke collection... so bought it for him lor. Wanted to keep till Vday then give de, but cannot contain my own excitment so give him yesterday le. =) 他好喜欢。还没弄短九先带了。

Me hor... when I buy presents hor, I very excited one leh. Will wanna give the person immediately. Dunno why oso. Maybe I enjoy seeing the recipients expression when receiving the gift ba. It's like this moment of suspense where you will see either disappointment or 喜悦 on receiving a present. Of course I enjoy more of the happinesss shown on the face....

So now... Who wants to buy me a present to see my expression on receiving it? Lolx!

Monday, February 06, 2006

Contradictions and Expectations

Sometimes I wonder why am I so full of contradictions and expectations. And it's always due to this tat I end up being unhappy, wilful and hurting the people I love. I really hate this.

He loved it and wanted so much to have it. I love him so much that I want him to have it just so that he will be delighted, but I just cannot overcome my own expectations to accept the idea of getting it. End up I get frustrated with myself, with him, with everything...... I decides at the moment of folly I want to jump out of the situation. It's just me and my stupid character.

Why is it I never learn? Always so 任性.....

Lucky for me, he's ever so patient with me. Bearing my temper and nonsense, explaining the entire situation to me.

Feeling very tired now... Too much emotions stirring in me. Need to sleep to settle it down....

Sunday, February 05, 2006

Straight Hair No More

For the first time in my life.... I permed my hair.....

All along, I've had the preference for straight long hair. Somehow I didn't think that curls would suit me cause I had thick hair and tat perming it would only make it look bombastic. When rebonding was available, I felt it was like the greatest invention for girls tat needed straight hair....

Finally.... yesterday.... I had the courage to try what I've been tempted to try..... SPA PERM!!! Lolx! So many people have caught up in the fad and me too also wanna try something different for once. Struggle so hard to resist the urge to cut my hair jus so that I can try perming it. Alas! I did it. =)

Yippee! My new hairstyle! I sat 7hrs in the salon doing this. Can you believe it?
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So far I got pretty good comments bout it. Even Jas who always thought that curls are auntie say I look not bad in it. I guess it makes me look my age ba.... Since people always thought I look younger than my age before this hairstyle.

I'm still getting use to it cause now, it's no longer as easy as a "wash and go" thingy. Needs a bit of time and patience to style it each time after I washes my hair..... Hope the curls to last though. Anyway.... I love this. Lolx!

Friday, February 03, 2006

好贵的螃蟹

You know those gigantic crab we always see in advertisements of seafood restaurants? Those that look so many times bigger than a normal crab?

Well... I finally had the chance to eat one today.

My boss brought us to a Cantonese restaurant today to have our Lo Hei lunch and we ordered lobster and crab. The head waitress recommended the Alaskan Crab and my boss decided to give it a try. We knew it was expensive but din know it would be THAT expensive.

Before they kill the crab to cook it, the waitress actually brought in the crab to show us. A pity we din take any pictures of it... We should have.... Cause it cost my boss a freaking $400. Yes! $400 for tat Alaskan Crab. The most expensive crab that I hv ever eaten in my god damn life. It was really good though. They cook the crab in 3 ways..... Steam the body, the legs were cooked in black pepper and the roe cooked with asparagus. Delicious.... and the price that came with it, makes it even more delicious.

We had lobster also and it isn't cheap either. Total bill came up to $800+ for 6 pax. Wah! My boss was in total shock to see the bill..... Lolx!

In case anyone's interested in where that restaurant is, it's call Imperial Treasure at Great World City.

I think a $400 crab is really worth a blog entry in here.... Lolx! Jus too bad... No photos to show how it looks like. Oh well....
Haiz.... Sometimes I feel my social life is getting more and more boring. WHY???

Seems like a lot of my friends (of my age) are having lots of fun going to clubs, hanging out and lots of activities. Why is it that I seems to be stuck in a rut?

Work from Mon to Fri, dinners in the evening, Fri night mahjong, Sat hang around at home with Jas (once in a while mahjong), Sun stay home... dinner with parents. And there! That's my week. Haiz...... So boring!

Can't something more interesting happen? Once in a while, I feel like going out drink, drunk and be wild. Hmm... miss those times man.... Why? Is it as we age, there is nothing more we can do other than mahjong? Not tat I dun like mahjong, love the game to death but hor.... I feel deprive of a more upbeat social life. 有时候觉得好像没有朋友,真可怜!

Talking about age. I feel very contradicting. 有时候觉得很年轻,有时候又觉得老了, 老了.... So 到底是怎样。Sianz Sianz Sianz......

Thursday, February 02, 2006

世界第二幸福

Saw this scene in a show....

A couple getting married in a chapel.... The male lead said, "我要你做世界上第二幸福的人" so the female lead asked, "为什么不是第一个?"

I could guess the answer.....

It's a very corny statement but yet I found it one of the most romantic one. It shows that the man is so very in love with the lady that he feels he's the most happy to be with her. I think most people feel most happy with the one he/she loves..... tat's why although the statement is simple and corny, it expresses very well one's innermost feeling.

I too... wan the guy who marry me to feel he's the happiest in the world. I wouldn't mind being the 2nd happiest. Haiz.... or maybe tat only happens in show.... Not in reality....

Wednesday, February 01, 2006

End of CNY Holidays

Image hosting by PhotobucketSo that's the end of the CNY holidays. Although, new year is normally for 15days but for most people who are working, it ends when they start going back to the office. Some so shiok, only start work on 6Feb... Me? Back to my desk on thurs. Should have been Wed but was on MC.... haiz... this whole CNY, sick all the way no recover de. So sian... Still, I took pictures to humour myself. Lolx!


Outside Jas place. He couldn't wake on on the 1st day of CNY. He was suppose to go house visting with me. While waiting for him, nothing to do, so act cute lor. Lolx!


1st day of CNY, as usual, go house visiting lor. Then evening time went to Eug hse for "gambling session" Play mahjong de play mahjong, play cards de play cards. My ang bao yearly get lesser and lesser le. So boring!
This year is oso the 1st time I brought bf along. I think Jas made a pretty good impression on all my auntie and uncles ba. =)


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2nd Day of CNY
Went for Tim Sum with Dad, Mum and Sis. It's our tradition to have Tim Sum on 初二 since dunno how long ago. We use to eat at the Northen Palace at Colombo court till it move and close down. Ever since, we had the yearly Tim Sum at the chinese restaurant at SRC.
After the meal, we went to take a walk at the 春到河畔 see see look look. Take some pictures and off I went to meet Jas. Went his aunt place. The most amazing thing is that, we both fell asleep on the sofa there and slept for 2 hrs. A CNY day spent like tat.

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Taken at the prata shop where we had dinner (think tat's the only food available other than fast food on CNY ba.) Edited the photo with my N70. Nice nice leh....

After that, it was off to Jac's place for more mahjong. We had 2 tables.... I think her neighbour must be hopping mad le. But who cares? It's CNY!!!!

3rd day....

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In Jas van... waiting for Zhihao to come down.

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Downstairs Kel house waiting for him. He huh... always very slow de.

We went to watch movie. Jac sick le.... so she din join us for the movie. I went with Jas, Kel, Tan and Zhihao.... watch 霍元甲. Not bad leh.... His last Kung Fu show le. He look old in the movie le.

So well.... tat was CNY for me.... :)